Getting My Tail In A Knot
Once more I discovered that I haven’t forgotten about wanting sex. Until Tuesday night I really haven’t focused at all on wanting sex in any form. For over a week I didn’t even get a morning woody....
View ArticleFLM 1 – Mrs Lion 1
Last night I gave Lion his swats. A while afterwards he asked what he had done to deserve the swats. He should always know why he’s being punished. I didn’t realize he forgot about the swats I never...
View ArticleMy Definition Of A Female Led Marriage
Even after all this time we sometimes struggle with whether or not we practice “true” FLM. I think the reason we do is that there are a lot of expectations floating around out there that don’t feel a...
View ArticleOur Education
I’ve been thinking about our flavor of domestic discipline. This practice, usually adopted by certain Christian sects, establishes male authority in the family by encouraging corporeal punishment of...
View ArticleBreaking The Routine
Lately, I’ve been falling asleep when Mrs. Lion cuddles and fondles me. I’m sure she isn’t offended. It’s a sign of my comfort having her in my arms as well as pure exhaustion. I’m not very happy that...
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We are home again. After a smooth seven-hour drive the Lions are safe in their den. On our trip to a former gold town, we visited a county fair. My one takeaway from the fair was that it would be… Read...
View ArticleThe Power Of The Paddle
Some of the issues that come up when we think about domestic discipline and the other power exchanges discussed on this blog are relevant to vanilla relationships as well. This is particularly true of...
View ArticleMaternal
It feels to me that while we are largely successful with enforced chastity, our FLM practice is far from routine. This is good, of course, in that we both enjoy the novelty. But there is a challenge as...
View ArticleBottoming From The Bottom
A lot of people talk about topping from the bottom. This seems to mean that when a bottom tries to get a top to do something to him, he is attempting to top from the bottom. A more general definition…...
View ArticleRomantic Fiction
In our case, there is a substantial gap between my image of enforced chastity and the reality Mrs. Lion sees. One of the biggest challenges for me is dealing with indifference. For example, Mrs. Lion...
View ArticleIt’s Just Not That Interesting
If you’ve been reading our posts for very long, you know that a female led marriage and/or enforced chastity isn’t 24/7 kink. Both of us have full lives individually and as a couple that have nothing...
View ArticleI Just Felt Like It
It’s no secret that I like to give Lion orgasms. Our brand of chastity is not really orgasm denial so much as orgasm granting. On occasion I do make him wait. And for the most part, I can’t point...
View ArticleRethinking our FLM
I had the bright idea some time ago that the next logical step for us was to have a Female Led Marriage (FLM) with domestic discipline. Mrs. Lion gamely agreed to try it. That was back last spring....
View ArticleDo You Have To Be Submissive?
[Note: I wrote this post before reading Mrs. Lion’s post yesterday. It just shows how much we think alike.] This may seem to be a silly question. If I surrender sexual control to my lioness and also...
View ArticleTweaking the Recipe
It occurred to me this morning that our male chastity, domestic discipline, and whatever we’re now calling our FLM is like cooking. We start out with a recipe and then decide to add a little more of...
View ArticleCommunity and FLM
One of the most significant challenges we have faced in trying to incorporate enforced chastity and Female Led Marriage (FLM) is the lack of community. There are relatively few blogs that consistently...
View ArticleDry Orgasms
I took a page out of Lion’s book and did some research into why Lion isn’t ejaculating when he has an orgasm. For younger men, the major cause is too many orgasms within a short time period. For older...
View ArticleStatus Update
It’s going to be a while before I am locked into the Jail Bird again. While I can dress and undress as well as unzip and use a urinal, sitting on a toilet and getting up again can be challenging.…...
View ArticleChange Of Venue
It’s been very sunny around here lately. That’s a welcome change. It makes me think of summer and traveling. We only have three trips planned this summer. Normally we’d be gone almost every other...
View ArticleI Tend To Think The Worst
Mrs. Lion has been writing about her efforts to rebalance our power exchange. She’s decided that maintenance spanking is a tool to get us back in the groove. We’ve been doing this nearly every night. I...
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